If you’re here, that means you are a potential future Be You Better Academy graduate! We understand that joining a mental health group for the first time can feel intimidating. After years of leading groups, we've heard every concern, and it's completely normal to feel hesitant. If you're worried about privacy, sharing personal experiences, or fitting in, know that you're not alone. But we’re here to put your mind at ease and help you see the powerful benefits that group therapy offers over individual sessions.

Participating in a group allows you to connect with others, gain diverse perspectives, and experience the healing power of community - benefits that can enhance your personal growth in ways individual therapy often cannot. It’s okay to feel uncertain, but we encourage you to feel the fear and do it anyway! Watch our videos where we’ll discuss common concerns and outline the many advantages of group participation. Let us help you make an informed decision, and together we can create a space for meaningful growth and connection!

For individuals who have never participated in a mental health group before, it’s common to have concerns or apprehensions about the experience. Here are some typical concerns they may have:

Fear of Judgment or Stigma

One of the most common concerns is the fear of being judged by others. People may worry that sharing personal experiences or struggles will lead to criticism, misunderstanding, or negative perceptions from other group members.

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Anxiety About Sharing Personal Information

Many people feel anxious about opening up in front of a group, especially when it comes to discussing sensitive mental health issues. The fear of being vulnerable in front of strangers can be a significant barrier.

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Confidentiality Concerns

Participants often worry about whether what they share in the group will remain confidential. They may fear that others in the group could talk about their personal information outside of the sessions, leading to concerns about privacy.

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Not Knowing What to Expect

For first-timers, not knowing how a group therapy session is structured or what’s expected of them can be intimidating. They may be unsure about how to interact, whether they will have to speak in every session, or how deeply they are expected to engage.

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Feeling Overwhelmed by Others’ Stories

Some may worry about becoming emotionally overwhelmed by hearing other participants’ stories, especially if they are dealing with their own heavy emotional burdens. This concern can lead to apprehension about attending regularly.

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Fear of Not Fitting In

There’s often a concern about not fitting in with the group or not being able to relate to the other participants. Some may worry that their struggles are too different or not as “serious” compared to others, leading to feelings of alienation.

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Performance Anxiety

People may feel pressure to contribute or say the "right" thing, fearing that others may judge their responses. Performance anxiety can be heightened if they’re not used to speaking in groups or feel uncertain about how to express their thoughts clearly.

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Uncertainty About Group Dynamics

Those unfamiliar with group settings may worry about how the group dynamics will play out. Concerns may include whether the group will be supportive, how disagreements will be handled, or whether they’ll have to deal with dominant personalities.

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Discomfort with Virtual or Online Formats

For virtual group settings, some individuals may be uncomfortable using video conferencing platforms. They might feel that the technology will be awkward, that they’ll struggle to connect with others in a virtual setting, or that technical issues will disrupt the session.

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Doubts About the Effectiveness

Participants new to group therapy might doubt whether a group setting can be as effective as individual therapy. They may wonder if they’ll receive enough attention or if their specific concerns will be addressed in a way that meets their needs.

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Worry About Taking Time Away from Others

Some people may feel guilty about sharing their experiences or emotions, worrying that they are taking up too much time and depriving others in the group of the chance to speak or receive support.

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Uncertainty About Commitment

Individuals may worry about whether they can commit to attending regularly, either due to time constraints or concerns about how they’ll feel during or after sessions. They may fear starting something they won’t be able to follow through with.

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Concerns About the Facilitator’s Role

Participants may be unsure of how the group leader or therapist will manage the session. Concerns might arise about whether the facilitator will provide enough guidance, maintain control of the group, or ensure that all participants are treated fairly.

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Fear of Comparisons

Some may fear that group therapy will lead to unhelpful comparisons—such as thinking that others are "doing better" or are more “resilient” than they are. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy or increased self-criticism.

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Apprehension About Emotional Triggers

For individuals dealing with trauma or other deeply emotional issues, there may be concerns that certain discussions will trigger painful emotions. The fear of having an emotional breakdown in front of the group can be a source of anxiety.

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Skepticism About Group Cohesion

Individuals might worry that the group won’t “gel” or that it won’t be a supportive, trusting environment. They may feel concerned about how long it will take to build rapport with others or question whether they’ll feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable.

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Concerns About Time and Energy Commitment

People may be concerned about whether they have the time, energy, or emotional bandwidth to participate in a group on a regular basis, especially if they’re balancing other life responsibilities or struggling with fatigue or low motivation.

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Pressure to Make Progress

Some participants may worry that they’ll be expected to show noticeable improvement quickly or that they’ll be judged if they don’t make progress at the same pace as others. This can create pressure to "perform" or be overly focused on results. By addressing these concerns with clear information about the process, structure, and expectations of group therapy, facilitators can help ease the anxieties of first-time participants and foster a welcoming and supportive environment.

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Group mental health programs offer several advantages over individual therapy, including:

Sense of Community and Shared Experience

Group programs provide the opportunity to connect with others facing similar challenges, creating a sense of belonging and reducing feelings of isolation. Hearing others share their experiences can be validating and comforting, as you realize you’re not alone in your struggles.

Diverse Perspectives

In a group setting, participants benefit from multiple viewpoints. Listening to how others handle similar challenges can provide new insights and coping strategies that you may not have considered in individual therapy. It can broaden your understanding of different approaches to mental health.

Support from Peers

One of the unique benefits of group therapy is peer support. You not only receive support from the therapist or facilitator but also from fellow group members who can offer encouragement, empathy, and real-life examples of what has worked for them.

Cost-Effective

Group therapy tends to be more affordable than individual therapy, making it a cost-effective option for those who want access to mental health care but have budgetary constraints. You still receive professional guidance, but at a fraction of the cost.

Improved Social Skills

Being in a group can help improve interpersonal communication and social skills. You practice listening, sharing, and giving and receiving feedback in a supportive environment. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals who struggle with social anxiety or find it hard to connect with others.

Safe Space for Practice

Group settings offer a safe environment to practice new coping mechanisms, behaviors, or communication skills before applying them in real-life situations. You get to learn in real time and receive immediate feedback from both the therapist and peers.

Accountability

In a group program, there’s a natural sense of accountability that comes from regular participation. Knowing that others are progressing alongside you can motivate you to stay committed to your personal growth and follow through with your mental health goals.

Exposure to Different Challenges

Even if participants are dealing with different specific issues, group therapy often exposes you to a variety of mental health struggles. This can enhance your empathy and emotional intelligence, helping you understand and relate to a broader range of experiences.

Increased Self-Awareness

Seeing how others perceive and respond to your contributions in the group can enhance self-awareness. Group settings allow you to notice patterns in your own behavior, thoughts, and feelings that may be harder to spot in individual therapy.

Modeling and Learning

In group therapy, you can observe others who may be further along in their healing or development process. This modeling effect can provide inspiration and practical examples of how to cope, grow, and thrive, giving you hope and a roadmap for your own progress.

Supportive Feedback

While individual therapy provides feedback from one therapist, group programs offer feedback from multiple people. This range of input can help you better understand how your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors come across to others, providing a well-rounded perspective.

Increased Emotional Resilience

The shared emotional experiences in a group setting allow you to build resilience by learning how others manage and overcome emotional challenges. The process of supporting and being supported strengthens your ability to handle your own emotions effectively.

Enhanced Self-Compassion

By witnessing others be vulnerable and show compassion toward themselves, you may find it easier to extend that same compassion to yourself. Seeing others go through similar challenges helps normalize your own experiences and reduces self-judgment.

Practice Setting Boundaries

In group therapy, you learn how to express yourself, set boundaries, and navigate group dynamics in a way that can be beneficial for your personal relationships. This can help with assertiveness and boundary-setting in everyday life.

In summary, group mental health programs offer a collaborative and supportive environment that encourages personal growth, provides multiple perspectives, and helps you develop social and emotional skills—all in a cost-effective and often more engaging format than individual therapy.

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